It seems to me that most of what I'm doing lately is linking to other things - I'll try to get something nice and rant-y up here soon.
In the meantime - link! I think this post has great points and describes some terrific principles... there are things here I think I can apply right away in relationships. Hmmm...
(ETA: I haven't read this yet, but I want to, so I'm linking it here so I can find it easily later. Feel free to tell me what you think about it!)
Also, days to marathon: 37
Days to potential mental breakdown: 1 or (approximately) 15