Showing posts with label Day 8. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Day 8. Show all posts

August 18, 2011

Ten Things - Part 8

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DOUBT IS BETTER THAN CERTAINTY.
Everyone always talks about confidence in believing what you do. I remember once going to a class in yoga where the teacher said that, spirituality speaking, if you believed that you had achieved enlightenment you have merely arrived at your limitation. I think that is also true in a practical sense. Deeply held beliefs of any kind prevent you from being open to experience, which is why I find all firmly held ideological positions questionable. It makes me nervous when someone believes too deeply or too much. I think that being sceptical and questioning all deeply held beliefs is essential. Of course we must know the difference between scepticism and cynicism because cynicism is as much a restriction of one’s openness to the world as passionate belief is. They are sort of twins. And then in a very real way, solving any problem is more important than being right. There is a significant sense of self-righteousness in both the art and design world. Perhaps it begins at school. Art school often begins with the Ayn Rand model of the single personality resisting the ideas of the surrounding culture. The theory of the avant garde is that as an individual you can transform the world, which is true up to a point. One of the signs of a damaged ego is absolute certainty.


Schools encourage the idea of not compromising and defending your work at all costs. Well, the issue at work is usually all about the nature of compromise. You just have to know what to compromise. Blind pursuit of your own ends which excludes the possibility that others may be right does not allow for the fact that in design we are always dealing with a triad – the client, the audience and you. 


Ideally, making everyone win through acts of accommodation is desirable. But self-righteousness is often the enemy. Self-righteousness and narcissism generally come out of some sort of childhood trauma, which we do not have to go into. It is a consistently difficult thing in human affairs. Some years ago I read a most remarkable thing about love, that also applies to the nature of co-existing with others. It was a quotation from Iris Murdoch in her obituary. It read ‘ Love is the extremely difficult realisation that something other than oneself is real.’ Isn’t that fantastic! The best insight on the subject of love that one can imagine.



Essay essay essay

August 29, 2010

Sunday Snippet

Love divine, all loves excelling,
joy of heav'n, to earth come down.
Fix in us thy humble dwelling,
all thy faithful mercies crown!
Jesus, thou art all compassion,
pure, unbounded love thou art;
Visit us with thy salvation,
enter every trembling heart.

Breathe, O breathe thy loving Spirit
into every troubled breast!
Let us all in Thee inherit;
let us find thy promised rest;
Take away the love of sinning;
Alpha and Omega be;
End of faith, as its beginning,
set our hearts at liberty.

Come, Almighty to deliver,
let us all thy life receive;
Suddenly return and never,
nevermore thy temples leave.
Thee we would be always blessing,
serve thee as thy hosts above,
Pray and praise thee without ceasing,
glory in thy perfect love.

Finish, then, thy new creation;
pure and spotless let us be;
Let us see thy great salvation,
perfectly restored in thee;
Changed from glory into glory,
till in heav'n we take our place;
Till we cast our crowns before Thee,
lost in wonder, love, and praise.

Amen.

- Charles Wesley


Sterling Singers

June 29, 2009

Video Mash Ups

Heh.

Got any fans of Buffy out there? Ever wish she'd give Edward the ol' what for? Check it out.

http://blip.tv/file/2261825/


And this is fun - a Fred Astaire video, set to Michael Jackson's "Smooth Criminal". Pretty cool, actually.

October 08, 2008

Day 8 - Bonus Warning

If anyone gets anywhere near me with the bouquet tomorrow night, I will cry. I'm starting to have an anxiety attack just thinking about it.

I fully expect to keep myself doped up on a combination of Advil and M&M's all day - but I did go to two different grocery stores tonight to find the pink "For the Cure" candies so that at least I could keep my "crack" matching the wedding colors.

I saw my fake boyfriend tonight - and since he is married, we agreed that my status would now be "Ex-fake girlfriend" since "Fake ex-girlfriend" could get confusing.

For some reason, I feel like stabbing myself in the eye with a fork. I won't - I just bought a couple of pounds of chocolate - but I feel like it. Please tell me it's just the anxiety, and it'll pass... (Could be sarcasm, but I don't think that'll go away.)

Day 8 - Pre-Wedding Blah

Today I: designed a marketing postcard, bought a blonde wig, repaired some jewelry, painted my toenails pink, wrapped Christmas presents, and finished two books. At least a few of those things were in regards to tomorrow's wedding, so... success!


And, because it makes me giggle: